So keeping the love alive in and out of the bedroom is not always easy. Over 10 years of marriage and three kids later I am lucky I have time to do it at all. Sometimes I have to keep testing the waters, just to make sure we still got it like that. With that said, last week we went to Vegas, just my husband and –no kids! We were alone as I couple for the first time in 10 years! We were doing it like porn stars. We did it for breakfast, lunch and dinner. It was great sex too! Not just sex, but I really want you sex. Just like back in the day when we were dating and all we did was do it!
For the first time in a decade, I had no one to take care of but myself. I set my alarm, I got myself ready, I even had breakfast (sitting down)! I had a few things to do during the day and the world was my oyster. This let me feel free and calmer to enjoy everything. Not just the sex, but everything! I think this thought, or lack thereof had a direction
connection on my libido and my husband’s as well.
The legality of everything down there also helped lower my inhibitions. It was just a more carefree sense of being. My husband and I walked down the street with red bull and vodkas in one hand and a bag of edibles in the other! You can do anything, everywhere and its all good! It gives you a pure sense of freedom to do whatever you want. Not to mention, everything is bigger and better in Vegas! From the lights, to the shows, to all the sexy ass people. It’s all an
aphrodisiac to me!
As soon as we got back, it all went back to normal. Not bad normal, just not doing it like porn stars on a daily normal…LOL! I am thankful we did it and proved to ourselves that we still do have it, and even more than ever! Moving forward, I’ve decided I am going to plan a SEXCATION every year. This is a small little getaway just me and
the hubs where we do nothing but focus on each other and get our sex life back on track. I think this is important not just for me, but for everyone! Take my advice and just do it! You won’t regret taking the time to reinvest in each other and your sexual relationship!
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!!!