A partner who actually respects your decision to hold off on sex will accept your explanation without question.
Do people really still wait until marriage to have sex? I know it may be hard to believe that there are still a select few that feel it’s important to wait to have sex until they are married. As much as I admire their beliefs, this is an impossible feat for most. Here is some advice for you virgins who intend to wait until there is a ring on it.
Make sure you find a person that respects your decision. It’s one thing for someone to say they are ok with your decision and it’s another thing when they get tired of waiting. Patience is a virtue in this situation for both parties. If you really want to wait, it’s important you find someone who is truly willing to do that. A partner who actually respects your decision to hold off on sex will accept your explanation without question.
Do not wait until you are already in a horizontal position to tell your partner. Be up front and tell them right away. One thing people do not like is to feel blind sided. Don’t wait until your pants are around you ankles to tell your partner you’ve never had sex before and you are waiting for marriage. It may make things difficult the more time and lack of communication that goes by. This creates a lot of frustration, and sometimes can go too far and your partner
I do not know about you, but I love a good cuddle and kiss. Although this may seem meaningless. It is a gateway action to other things. I’ve heard the line before, “Let’s just cuddle, let’s just kiss and one thing leads to another and next thing you know I have another notch in my belt! I always have a hard time stopping things once they start, so try not to get yourself in that comprising situation.
Many people crave physical touch. It is human nature. Try to find other types of physical touch that may satisfy you. Maybe go for a massage, which may help alleviate some of your sexual needs. You could also go to a yoga or exercise class, which may also keep you in tune with your body and mood.
Tell your partner you love them in other ways than sexual behavior. You can truly love someone and not have to have sex with him or her. Our bodies crave so much more. Discover a love language to show your partner how much you love them in other ways. I know it sounds cliché’, but most people just want to feel loved, whether sexually or not. There are many other love forms to express yourself so get creative, without letting them in your pants.
Your virginity is something precious and sacred. Once it’s taken away, you can never get it back, so lose it wisely.