“Since sex is mainly driven by emotions,
some actually never speak in depth to each
other about their bedroom behavior”.
Whether you have been with your partner forever, or just became an item, there is always something new to learn about one
another in the bedroom. Since sex is mainly driven by emotions, some actually never speak in depth to each other about their
bedroom behavior. After a 10-year marriage, I can honestly say we still have new moments of intimacy that we have not experienced
before. If you or your partner feel stuck in a rut, here are 10 go to questions that may change the game for both of you!
1.) What can we do to romance each other during the day in anticipation of sex?
2.) Would you be interested in using sex toys? Which ones?
• Dildo • Vibrator • Penis Ring • Others
3.) Which love making positions would you like to try the next time we have sex? For example, whom would you like on top, do
you like it during the day or at night, do you prefer doggie style, etc…
4.) What would you enjoy doing during foreplay? How long would you like foreplay to last before having intercourse?
5.) Is anal sex or anal play something you would be willing to try?
6.) What kind of fantasizing in the bedroom is OK with you?
7.) Where are two places you would like to make love outside of our bedroom?
8.) Are you the high desire or low desire spouse?
9.) How many times a week would you like to have sex?
10.) What would you like to see me wear or not wear during sex?
Although these questions may sound simple, you would be surprised at how many people are surprised about the answers their
partner give. You may find that you are both on the same page, or you may find that you are on completely different playing fields.
The only way to find out is to ask, and keep an open line of communication. Either way, it’s a fun little quiz that may lead to an
unexpected night of passion!