Making time for making love.

Making time for making love.

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If having a good and healthy sex life is one of your primary goals, find the time and space in your life to express that.

 

In this busy and hectic world many of us struggle to find a way to connect at the end of the day. I know with 3 kids and a job it gets almost impossible sometime. I am someone who always wanted sex no matter when or where and right now I will take sleep over anything. This is not like me, but I guess it happens to all of us.  Sexual relationships are sometimes like a roller coaster ride. Sometimes they are fast and furious and other times it’s just another ride on a familiar track…LOL! Whatever ride you are on, just make sure the track isn’t broken. Make love a priority. Even if it’s not having sex on a daily. It could be as intimate as kissing or cuddling. These signals, even if small shows your partner affection and lets them know you still care about them. If life gets too crazy and you just can’t find the time…pencil it in like you do everything else. I know that sounds terrible and not very spontaneous but it may work. Sometimes when things are out of sight and out of mind, you may completely blank out and not even realize it. This may lead to forgetfulness and possibly boredom in the bedroom. Most of the time it is patterns that you’ve both fallen into. You can both feel disconnected. You may not argue or fight, but you also don’t talk beyond mapping out the logistics of the day or week. You fall into parallel lives, daily routines with each of you doing your own thing.

Time to change. Only by putting forth effort, time and energy will the physical pursuit of happiness work. What do you have to say no to for this to become a priority? Maybe not watching your favorite show, turning your phone off or getting ready for bed earlier. All of these things will help, but you both have to make a mutual effort.

If having a good and healthy sex life is one of your primary goals, find the time and space in your life to express that.

 

Kisses,

Angela

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